So let me start off by saying i have what i perceive to be an alright body image (most of the time)this said i come from a family of "Heavy BONED" or as we like to put it in my Fam, **FAT** but i think its politically incorrect to say that nowadays lol..but hey we some fat folk.In a world where Tyra banks is fat, and beyonce is considered larger than average it can be hard to ever really be happy with our weight or anything else physical for that matter and we all have our low moments but most of us get over them and move on till some stick figure twat in TOPSHOP asks u your honest opinion "dose this make me look fat?" all u wanna say is "Go jump off a bridge" cuz quite obviously they are clearly ANOREXIC but you just say no its great on you. sad huh?
well then why not just tell them the truth??...simples they aint tryna hear the truth and it dosen't stop there i mean we've seen proof countless times that celebrity's are to skinny and that it is impossible for normal women to look the way women in magazines do so why continue to hurt oneself?? dose it have to do with where we are from? or who we hang out with? i know you think I'm an individual but its never that black and white unless your talking about race!
Let me get controversial for a second. why is it that white women between the ages of 12 and 25 are the most concerned about their weight and diminishing any curves their body might naturally have? I mean not to say that other races don't care but they don't obsess and those that do either live in white neighborhoods ,have a vast number of white friends,or follow white celebrity's and media over all way to much. i mean look at me I'm not exactly a size 12 if u know what i mean lol and trust i have had moments where i wish i was but starving my self throwing up or dangerous diet and excessive exercise don't even come to mind when i think about my weight. and again I'll say i have my moments the other day for example i decided to chill with my ex he asked me if i was eating well cause it looked like i had gained some weight (even thought i had lost 10 pounds since the last time he saw me but who's counting) for a second i was dieing but i winked and got over it of course I'm African and i like Black men most of which (including my ex) don't care if their woman is slightly over weight many of them prefer plum or as they like to put it thick women just as log as she has a nice ass!, or to be more specific a big sometimes borderline huge sized ass, and in my case my ample badonkadonk could possibly be the reason I'm tipping the scales or it could just well possibly be the family heavy bones lol,
Anyway the point I'm trying to make here is media and Society have messed us up soo much in believing you can only be considered BEAUTIFUL if you are a frail size 4 Nah Uh, and you probably thinking thats dumb right but i bet you half of you reading this dont really like your body image,and you think if only i was this size...and this is Guys included. I mean most of my friends would be like yeah you good but if you was slimmmer....??? I'm LIKE are you SERIOUS....Lol Well I For one Love my Body yessss ALLL of its thickness and all And if a friend, Guy or whatever got a Problem with it Go jump a cliff.. I llove me all oof me my body my weight if i wanna eat a cheese burger in front of a guy i will dammit lol....
IM BIG BLACK AND BEAUTIFULLLLLL....IM A REAL WOMAN!
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